Losing It For The Family

Losing It For The Family

Thursday, July 21, 2011

I Had To Be There To Get To Here And Appreciate It

One thing I have come to realize here lately is that different areas of my life have all come together and intertwined rather than staying in their separate compartments. I can honestly say when I step back and survey my present and future and contrast it against my past, I can honestly say I am blessed to excess!! In my past, I was never in any good relationships with women, now I have the perfect wife! In the past I was working in a factory and making eeehhh money and killing myself slowly physically. Now I am a man with a bachelor's degree and headed off to law school, and I think in my heart I have a promising career in law ahead of me. I was well overweight (still not where I should be) but now I am a much thinner and more importantly healthier man. I had a job I hated, regardless of how good I was at it, but now, I have the best boss and a much better outlook on work. I mean looking at all this, how can I not say "Wow, I am loving my life!!" But here is the thing. Cheryl, my boss, made a comment on my Facebook post about her that she has been touched everyday by my "attitude of gratitude". And it dawned on me, I think I do have an attitude of gratitude. But I am not sure that if all the things I have now had not come by hard work and faith that God would bring me these things, I would have appreciated it nearly as much. I think that the journey, as hard as it may be, always makes the destination that much sweeter. It is hard to say that being obese, poor and lonely were blessings, but in reality, I think they were (although I am still technically financially poor). Because if everything had come easy to me, I would have never had the notion that all these new found blessings were such HUGE blessings, I would have just felt entitled. So,yeah, it isn't always about what is waiting on the other side, sometimes, it really is the climb that makes the man or woman.



5 comments:

  1. I recently put this as my Facebook status:

    "Opportunity is missed by most people, because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work." - Thomas A. Edison

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  2. I agree, Shane. If we haven't been on the other side, and worked to change our circumstances, we wouldn't appreciate where we are now. And we still do not know how much better it can be, with diligence.

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  3. I truly believe that attitude goes a long way to helping to reach your goals :)

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  4. C. S. Lewis, Christian author, formerly an atheist has written that without the darkness we wouldn't know light. Without evil, we wouldn't recognize righteousness. We live in world of opposites and you are right. In order to recognize and appreciate blessings we have to have experienced the things that are not the things we enjoy.

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  5. Attitude is everything. And from what I've read, you have a great one! Keep it up!
    -Sarah
    www.fitango.com

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